Social anxiety therapy for kids, teens, & young adults

Evidence-based therapy that helps kids connect with confidence.

Support for social phobia, fear of judgment, and social avoidance in children, teens, and young adults.

Insurance accepted. Appointments often available within days.

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Social anxiety, at a glance

5-10%

of children and teens meet criteria for social anxiety disorder

Ages 8-15

is the typical age of onset for social anxiety

75%

of youth with social anxiety respond well to CBT

Understanding social anxiety

When shyness becomes something more.

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Social anxiety disorder goes beyond ordinary shyness. It is a persistent fear of social situations where a child feels they will be judged, embarrassed, or humiliated. It can significantly limit friendships, school participation, and daily functioning.

A licensed clinician distinguishes between normal developmental shyness and clinical social anxiety by evaluating the severity, duration, and impact on your child's daily life.

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Fear of judgment

Intense worry about being embarrassed, rejected, or negatively evaluated in social situations.

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Social avoidance

Avoiding parties, group activities, or speaking in class to escape anxiety.

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Physical symptoms

Blushing, sweating, trembling, nausea, or racing heart in social settings.

Common signs of social anxiety by age

Symptoms look different at every stage of development.

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  • Young Children (4-7)

    Refusing to speak to adults

    Hiding behind parents

    Crying before social events

    Difficulty with unfamiliar children

  • School-Age (8–12)

    Avoiding answering questions in class

    Eating alone at lunch

    Dreading group projects

    Few or no close friendships

  • Teens (13-17)

    Skipping school for social reasons

    Refusing to attend parties

    Intense fear of embarrassment

    Physical symptoms: blushing, trembling

  • Young Adults (18-25)

    Avoiding job interviews

    Difficulty in college classes

    Social isolation despite wanting connection

    Using avoidance as primary coping strategy

Could it be social anxiety?

Take a quick, clinically validated screening to better understand your child's symptoms.

GAD-7 Anxiety Screening

The GAD-7 is a brief, clinically validated tool used by healthcare providers to screen for generalized anxiety disorder. It takes about 2 minutes and can help you understand whether your child's symptoms may benefit from professional support.

This screening is not a diagnosis. A licensed clinician reviews the results and recommends next steps.

Take the GAD-7 Screening
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How social anxiety therapy helps

Evidence-based strategies for building social confidence and reducing avoidance.

  • Challenges negative thoughts about social situations
  • Builds confidence through gradual social exposure
  • Develops assertiveness and conversation skills
  • Manages physical anxiety symptoms
  • Supports healthy friendship development
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Why families choose Emora

Specialized pediatric anxiety care vs. general providers.

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Other providers

Licensed pediatric and young adult clinicians

Generalist providers

Evidence-based CBT and exposure therapy

One-size-fits-all approaches

Parent-inclusive therapy model

Limited parent involvement

Virtual sessions reduce initial social anxiety barriers

In-person visits that intensify social fear

Insurance accepted

Insurance not always accepted

Built-in screening and progress tracking

Limited progress visibility

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Get started in minutes

Three simple steps to connect with the right clinician.

  • 1

    Share what's going on

    Answer a few questions about symptoms and goals.

  • 2

    Verify coverage

    See insurance estimates and available times.

  • 3

    Start sessions

    Meet your clinician and begin building skills.

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Frequently asked questions

What parents and young adults ask most about social anxiety therapy.

Real stories of growth

Every session is rated by parents. Our therapists maintain a 4.9+ average, because results matter.

Ann is an excellent therapist. She’s been helping my daughter through her anxiety and her thoughtful and insightful guidance has had a meaningful impact on my daughter and managing her anxiety.

Parent of an 11 year old

8 hours ago

Ann Marie Driver
Provider:

Ann Marie Driver, LCMHC-A

She’s very charismatic and easy to talk to. My daughter told me she likes her

Parent of a 13 year old

9 hours ago

Katherine Vasquez Lugo
Provider:

Katherine Vasquez Lugo, RMHCI

Catherine was warm and welcoming!

Parent of a 10 year old

13 hours ago

Catherine Campos
Provider:

Catherine Campos, LCSW

My therapist was absolutely amazing I already can tell she is going to help me a lot!

An Adult client

16 hours ago

Laura Doocy
Provider:

Laura Doocy, LPC-A

Milton is very understanding and listened to my son rattle on and on lol and they're was no rush.

Parent of an 11 year old

1 day ago

Milton Hernandez
Provider:

Milton Hernandez, LPC

JoeAnn Allen gave us key ways to handle some problems, we appreciate her very much

Parent of a 14 year old

1 day ago

JoeAnn Allen
Provider:

JoeAnn Allen, RMHCI

Rating on behalf of my daughter. She's always in a better mood when she talks with Korina! ✨

Parent of a 14 year old

1 day ago

Korina Herrera
Provider:

Korina Herrera, LMHC

My son connects so well with Nathalie. He was skeptical at first now he sets up 10 mind before the session in anticipation for their talk time.

Parent of a 10 year old

1 day ago

Nathalie Fernandez Mendez
Provider:

Nathalie Fernandez Mendez, LCMHC-A, LMHC

Richard was excellent during my child´s session today. He was very informative, attentive, and truly focused on our specific needs. You can tell he genuinely cares and takes the time to listen and understand. We’re looking forward to future appointments and seeing growth with his support.

Parent of a 6 year old

1 day ago

Richard Reyes
Provider:

Richard Reyes, LPC-Associate

The coping mechanism you gave me felt extremely helpful

An Adult client

1 day ago

Marise Jimenez
Provider:

Marise Jimenez, RMHCI

Very attentive and caring. Took the time out to help us find the right therapist.

Parent of a 16 year old

1 day ago

Jennifer Guzman
Provider:

Jennifer Guzman, LPC

great person easy to talk to. very attentive.

An Adult client

1 day ago

Dr. Joel Bell
Provider:

Dr. Joel Bell, PsyD

Sarah is incredible with my 7 year old. So great at building rapport and bringing in coping strategies.

Parent of a 7 year old

1 day ago

Sarah Newton
Provider:

Sarah Newton, LMSW

Helped my child open up and feel more self confidence

Parent of a 6 year old

1 day ago

Korina Herrera
Provider:

Korina Herrera, LMHC

Tips to help her calm down and positive self talk

Parent of a 6 year old

1 day ago

Korina Herrera
Provider:

Korina Herrera, LMHC

Great session today. Love that my son felt like opening up about friendship issues and talk through options to conflict resolution

Parent of a 9 year old

2 days ago

Anita Plank
Provider:

Anita Plank, LCSW

Provider was very easy to talk to and my daughter felt safe speaking with her.

Parent of a 13 year old

2 days ago

Stephonia Llewellyn
Provider:

Stephonia Llewellyn, LPC, LMHC,-QS

Ms. Williams was very thorough in her process and gave clear objectives of her style of therapy. I think her expertise and knowledge will be very beneficial for my daughter.

Parent of a 16 year old

2 days ago

Seairra Williams
Provider:

Seairra Williams, LPC-A

Social anxiety does not define your child

Structured, developmentally informed therapy can help build skills that last.

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